Though generally speaking, men are being conditioned by society in a certain way, in which they should be like so and so and are not allowed to be like so and so. Yes, evolution has evolved from a female dominated society to a male dominated society only to be rebalanced back into oneness during our precious current time. So due to these conditionings, males tends to be less of an emotional being but rather more ego driven in the sense that they need to be strong, macho, lead, not allowed to cry and so on. Of course women have their own version too. So with this in mind men tends to process emotions in a different way in respect to that of the women. And the thing that makes everything so much more complicated is a result of the inaccurate view of how a traditional relationship has taken form.
The Twin Flame relationship is far more divinely orchestrated and is based on all the highest aspects of love such as unconditional giving and receiving, open communications and understanding, respect, mutual support and acceptance. Having said that, most men have difficulties letting go of the old way of how a relationship should be. Men tends to be more mechanical and so are often not very sensitive in their approach and even have a tendency to be controlling or dominating too. And due to the fact that men are mostly outward driven, they tend to be more focused on the primitive instinct rather the heart space. Women, on the other hand tends to be caught up with their emotions too much. Just so we are clear, being emotional does not mean, we are feeling from our heart space.
These make up the bases of why men tends to be slower in the whole Twin Flame process of sacred reunion as well as in memory recalling of such a divine connection. They also tend to have a tendency to pull away or run away due to their inability to accept change or branch away from the conventional thinking altogether. If they are able to come to terms with their emotions, what it is they are thinking and feeling, then things will become a little easier for both the twin flame couple. As always, direct, honest communication is one of the crucial keys in making it work. So don't be afraid to talk about anything and everything, for the Twin Flame relationship is all about acceptance and loving unconditionally. It is okay to make mistakes and learn from it. It is okay to feel a little scared at times too but ultimately, it is about knowing and recognizing that the love they have for each other is eternal and more than anything they can ever imagine.
Much care should be taken when identifying if someone is really your twin flame as it is not to be confused with that of a soul mate. We can have up to thousands of soul mates but there is only one twin flame connection. If you have to ask yourself or think and rethink if someone is your twin flame, then chances are they are not. If you have to ask someone else, or need to rely on an external source to confirm if someone is your twin flame, then again most likely they are not. Twin flames hold the exact vibrational energy level which means they both have the same soul core frequency at least, even if their life experiences and learnings seems to vary a little, in that one may seem to be a little behind the other. But essentially, they still go through the same thing. They will be able to help each other to grow spiritually and in all ways. This also means they hold a very special connection with each other and between them, they will be able to identify and remember each other without much effort at all. It will be the most unexpected and undeniable. Hints, clues, and confirmation will pop up again and again between the twin flames to pull them together.
Twin flames reunion is a very sacred path and is all about doing away with all old emotional baggage and ties, letting go of unwanted businesses, unforgiveness and the need to control, while learning to accept and loving the self wholly. It is a journey back to oneness, peace, bliss and unconditional love. The twin flame path isn't just a journey of self-discovery but one in discovering the sacredness of the love they have for each other and the love they have for self. The intensity, awe and the magnificence is beyond anything that words could describe. It can only be felt again and again. I feel extreme love for my beautiful twin flame as I say these words and I will not tolerate any inconsideration or disrespect towards her. I will stand by her and with her through it all. I love you with all of my heart and soul my beautiful Twin Flame Ostaretha ♡